Cancer Woman and Scorpio Man | Lipstick Alley
Scorpio man and Cancer woman compatibility. in a way special, yet I believe it fits in here perfectly, just as dramatic and deep as all the stories told until now. Cancer man and Scorpio woman compatibility. I am currently dating a Cancer man and I am a Scorpio woman and I am so amazed at these stories Im reading. Scorpio and Cancer are said to be a strong match but is that really true? Learn the shared traits of Scorpio and Cancer in 7 life areas.
I can no longer live without my true love Cancer man and will be leaving my marria ge soon. This has been the most amazing, sensual, and satisfying relationship I have ever had. I love this Cancer man I have been talking to a Cancer guy for 3 months now.
It just feels so right. I have already fallen in love with him. I can see him in my future and he feels the same way about me. I have never felt this way about a guy. Sometimes think that it's too good to be true. I am trying to stay positive about everything. He plans to move closer to me so we can move to the next level.
He lives 3 hours away from me and we see each other twice a month. I really do believe distance makes the heart fonder with this guy. When I see him it is fireworks every time since we only get to see each twice a month. I hope that this never ends and that we make the next steps into a relationship when he moves closer to me. He is my everything and more couldn't be happier right now.
I am a Cancer man. To the Scorpio woman asking "What should I do?
Cancer man and Scorpio woman
I'd say, spend as much time with this guy as you can. Sometimes we all try to protect ourselves - and we all want quick, clear answers and guarantees in life - and so we try to do too much of the work in our minds. A lot of guys will screen themselves out of your life without you having to think real hard or say a word.
See him around kids, animals, his job, his friends, your friends, his family and yours. What kind of guy is he like when he's angry or frustrated and things don't go his way? What's he like in an argument? Does he get verbally abusive, physically rough? What's he do when another man smiles at you or flirts with you - if he gets jealous or mad - does he get mad at the man, or at you?
How does he drive? I know maybe it's not popular to advise that. But sex - especially between emotional, passionate, intense water signs, can build a false sense of closeness for awhile, but, in my experience, can really obscure reality, mess with your mind and make a break-up that much harder to bear. As a Scorpio, you have arguably the most pull in the relationship. Act a little uninterested in him and see if he acts a little concerned. Constantly playing games with people's minds and emotions is disingenuous and can back-fire, especially in a longer-term relationship; doing it once in awhile to test the water before you make yourself vulnerable in order to break new ground in a relationship is not unethical.
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Was with a Cancer man during my early twenties while in school and into the young working world of NYC. We were together for 5 wonderful yet trying years. I always knew I wanted to be with him but he broke up with me and we went our separate ways. Six years later I am engaged to him. Perspective from our relationships during our time apart and growing up only proves how much we are really are made for one another. No one can be as sweet and as loving yet strong and decisive as he.
I was surprised by his nostalgia and how unknowingly I was the standard for all of his other loves. Even though the moment we broke up I told him I was the best girl that he would ever have. I have always loved my Cancer man with a depth that goes beyond time.
Good luck to everyone out there. Cancer as a young man, having mood swings isn't easy. If we are in a moody state We can't help it even if we don't like it.
Being Cancers isn't easy, all we need is some comforting, let us know that you're still with us. As a Cancer, it's like dealing with a violent storm of emotional crashing down upon us Cancers. It's a pain deep within our hearts that we can't explain. Sometimes I can't explain it but wonder its there, you have no idea. Hope this helps I have been separated from my Cancer boyfriend for 3 months and I miss him like crazy! We broke up due to his endless friendships with the opposite sex. He gave me security, great sex, time, fun and excitement but my jealousy couldn't deal with his flirty ways.
I believe he loved me too and sometimes I feel him thinking about me too. I know he won't reach out fir me as he is as stubborn as me, but pride won't let me go to him. I want him back so much but only if he can understand my insecurities My name is Eve and I am a Scorpio woman.
My Cancerian man is my Adam. As a female Scorpio I seek the qualities that make a man strong and bring out my submissive side. At the same time, he allows me to be the leader that I am without letting me to walk over him. The sex is greater than amazing because he is never selfish while at the same time reserving himself and teaching me the same. This is a challenge and a turn on for me. His gregarious nature keeps his attraction for the opposite sex visible and prevents the whole possessiveness that we Scorpios try to avoid.
Then his appreciation for home and family keeps me assured that I cant be replaced; also important for the Scorpio. We've been together for three years and even though he's been incarcerated two of those years, our bond is just as tight. He trusts me and in return I provide him with the security he craves. Cancer men, like Scorpio women, need alone time as well as a great amount of attention.
Communication and understanding come almost as natural as laughter so be fair and open with your mate because this connection is irreplaceable. Like almost everyone else here I am a Scorpio girl. Yes, attracted to a Cancer man currently.
How to attract a Scorpio? Trust me, we Scorpios can see through fakeness instantly. Some times, you have to be straight up with us. You have to tell us what you actually are thinking in a straightforward way.
Ask them what's wrong. If they say nothing, leave them alone. Sometimes, just ask them about them. If they'd rather not say, then pick a new topic. Make YOU into a person they can trust. In case you didn't know All Scorpios have this pain inside them Each and every one. It's a deep, fiery pain that even they have yet to understand. If you cheer the Scorpios up Which only Cancers like you can do then they'll easily fall in love with you or be your best friend.
You'll find a some of the most loyal friends in Scorpios if you earn their trust. It's something you have in common with them. I can't speak for other Cancer men, but I'd imagine there are a lot of us who read this page periodically even though we don't comment as much as you Scorpio ladies do.
Just like in the relationship, you seem to know more about us than we do ourselves, so I'd imagine we're all keeping our mouths shut and just listen here lol. There is some very valuable information here though, so thank you to everyone who has offered tips and advice.
I'm tempted to go into detail about how amazing my Scorpio lady is. But she already knows and it would just give her more ammunition to expand on the many ways I suck by comparison. I do feel blessed to have her in my life though. Scorpio women are the best. I am a Scorpio girl who currently has a "friends-with-benefits" relationship with a Cancer boy.
How do I turn this fling into a real relationship? I am dating a Cancer man and believe me am so confuse. We make love and I mean he is great in bed but after the sex and all he is like a different man. He will tell me that he wants and care for me when I force it out of him sometime he make fell like am the best woman in the world and next time I don't know whether he remembers me or not.
I really love him I do but am thinking about giving him a break. He will buy me stuff if I ask him to but he will not just go and get a gift for me.
Is this a typical Cancer man or is he playing me? I can understand why my Cancer man is so self centered am always thinking about him and he seem to only remember me when he's hard or his mother nature is calling he a great lover but sometime I want to just talk to him so I can know him better but he's always pushing me off. All 3 signs just have that certain something, the "it" factor that all deep, emotionally sensitive, sensual, probing water symbols need. It's just that simple and just that complicated.
I am a Cancer man that is currently falling for a Scorpio woman The Cancer man in question is someone that I went to school with almost 20 years ago.
He emailed me and then immediately called me when I responded to ask me out. We talked on the phone and texted for over a week before our actual date- he was out of town on vacation. Before our date he was texting me first thing every morning- and called frequently While on the date, he was very sweet, nervous and was constantly holding my hand, putting his arm around me and kissing me At home he did the same thing, but once it got late he was up and out of there He has texted me everyday- and has been very sweet, but has yet to make a move as to seeing me again.
I finally told him that I would like to see him again and he said that we would get together this week. I am just very confused. I am a Scorpio and usually in control of relationships, but I am stumped. I can't read him I don't know what to say or do next I tried the whole ignoring him thing and he just ends up texting me even more I am not sure what to do. On a side note, he did tell me that he always wanted to ask me out in school and I was that girl that he always looked at and wished that he could be with I need to know what to do.
Do I pursue him? Do I leave it alone and let him come to me? Everything that I have read about Cancer men has proven true with him I am very loving and we would be the perfect couple if he would just commit a little I own a business and I am a very busy person so I have to plan He also says that he loves when I text him because he thinks that it is very sweet If Cancer men are so loving and caring, why doesn't he see that he is just not doing much?
I also need to know that someone cares about me and wants to be around me I am truly crazy about him and I just need some major advice on what to do next Im a Scorpio woman with a Caner man This website is great, most posts express exactly how Im feeling. The Cancer man is slightly younger than me by 4 years and I feel like the immature girl asking him how he feels, because he says nothing.
But what I've learned from this website is Cancers need reassurance, but so do Scorpios. Before meeting this guy, I was a confident chick who could pick up any guy in the bar.
Now Im insecure and don't want anyone else except for him and I have no idea how he feels: He makes love to me and has this way of looking into my eyes and holding me that makes me believe he cares very deeply about me.
He does little meaningful things that I love. For his birthday I got him the world cup soccer ball he wanted, he loved it but just left it at my place and still wont take it over to his place. And if I don't say anything we can go through a whole week and more without seeing each other.
This is very tiring and Im not sure how m much I would be pushing him if I told him I would like him to do more? How much can I express without scaring him off? All I know is that I have to be myself I have been chatting with a Cancer man. I am not sure though if he is trying to impress me by bragging about his material possessions or basically he is just a plain and simple bragger???
Then he started to flirt a little with me and when I flirted back, nothing to heavy or tacky I can assure youhe made this really bitchy, disrespectful comment I haven't heard from him since, but I do find myself wondering about what he is really all about I am so madly in love with my Cancer man I am 25 and was married before in a very abusive marriage.
I pretty much felt like giving up on love and here he came walking back into my life we went to high school together and had feelings for one another back then but never expressed it. Cancer guys do yourself a favor if you and this Scorpio woman have a strong chemistry don't rush her to doing something that you would regret and just play it simple and see were things go from there and I was just reading your stories and I got to say wow and thanks for reading this. I'm so confused with this Cancer Man I don't know which end is up.
I'm a Scorpio woman very secure and understanding of his needs and respect for his career. We have known each other for a month and it seems like years. In a nutshell he's one of those people that are consumed with work and will get back with you when things die down. This is what he has expressed what damaged his last relationship. Currently married, separated for over 2 years and same situation with me It's a 12 year age difference and I feel that I give him the attention that he desires and he expresses that 'I'm stuck with him and he is what I'm what he has been looking for.
Nevertheless, we hardly speak because of his strenuous work. When I do get to speak with him I don't let him know that this is bothering me instead I listen to what he has to say and decipher if in fact he is being honest with me.
When I speak with him it's as if nothing has changed and the love he has for me is even more intense. Besides, I'm not trying to sound like her either. So we had a situation that he has offered to find me a car because my other is broke down and we are in another city. When we depart each other after 3 weeks of anticipation we kiss our goodbyes and he says for me to call him in a couple hours so we can check on this car we were looking into.
Knowing he has to get his crew back in order I knew he needed a little time anyway. Leave a text update So I ask the panel Do you think it's time to back off and let him hit the voicemail for awhile? My feelings are already wrapped up but I can't possibly go thru another heartache being in a Scorpio Cancer relationship is ok but they want security and stability just like us so its more about if your willing to be patient be there when things are good and when things are shit.
He will care for you but at the end of the day words are just words and if he comes with actions then is that not better then chatting shit. I am a Scorpio woman who has been married to a Leo man for almost 17 years. Recently at a get-together I met a guy who attracted me instantly.
I didn't know why this was happening to me because I have never in my life felt so drawn to anyone on my life. After having conversation with him he told me he was a cancer.
This is something I will have to work through in my head and in my heart as this has been an all consuming situation that won't let go of me. I recently found him on facebook and now feel like a cheat. I am sick to my stomach most of the time and feel foolish because the immediate attraction may very well be one-sided. Leo's and Scorpio's aren't the best match and it's unfortunate.
Im in love with a Cancer man I'm no longer with. We were friends for months before we started dating. We in actuality dated for 3 mths and just like that he walked outta my life. He had an attitude I did not wanna deal with.
I let him know my true feelings and always used caution when talking with him. We connected on every level. I never experienced love like I did with him. He was what I prayed for and now it's gone. I constantly fight with myself on calling him, but I never do. I just think if it were meant to be it will be, but if its not then oh well.
I have yet to be with anyone else because I know no one would make me feel the same. I don't know what to do, but I really want him back, his embrace, his kiss, his companionship, his loyalty, his funniness, his everything. You MUST be devoted to him He's insecure demeanor will always 'test' to see if you are.
Its highly likely he, the Cancerian man, thinks the world of you as we don't often like to waste energy on people we weren't interested in and already imagines, fantasyland-like how life will be in the future. Meaning, if for any reason he senses you are just not that in to him, he will project an aura ta seems like his not that into you too and downgrade his love for you - even if he loves you with all his heart. That's why you often see a struggle; one moment he is the No1 man in the world and the next he is cold - its just his way of protecting his soft feelings.
Cancer doesn't enjoy being 2nd best; he doesn't like feeling inferior to anyone. You have to go out of your way Might seem like a task but in return, a decent Cancer show you the true meaning of being loyal and devoted. Cancer, of course is moody by nature. Often causes of accelerating this moodiness is via feelings of jealousy, selfishness, or feelings of inferiority.
Main thing to understand is that Cancer are givers, be it emotionally, physically etc But Cancers are also human after all and need something of 'equal' measure back too, but not in a stringent, orderly way. Cancer hate to be taken for granted. Because I am tired of wasting time with others The attraction was immediate, the silent understanding and empathy is at the forefront, and yet both of us are quiet about how we actually feel about each other.
Both of us are typically emotionally guarded and yet when we're around one another we seem to heal through touch, however slight or intimate, and let our walls down. Still, we are only beginning to talk about our feelings, and he feels talking puts pressure on our relationship - so I try to keep my feelings-communications to a minimum, for when I feel it truly necessary to get something off my chest, or take a proverbial temperature of our relationship.
Being Scorpio, I'm highly analytical about intentions, and this runs my emotions high when I finally allow myself to "fall" for someone, as I am with him - and I find myself reigning myself in and writing rather than confronting him. I suppose this is healthy, but I don't want my stifling to become an issue later. We both have a push-first-pull-later way of handling our feelings, pushing the other person away to see their reaction testing our trust in them and then gauging our feelings based on how they react, and then finally beginning to invest if the reaction is what we want.
It's difficult operating in the such similar emotional bubbles though, but I also feel that sometimes a test of patience pays off in a lesson learned. At least that's what I'm hoping with this Cancer man. I adore him, and there's something magnetic that I can't deny no matter how far my self-defense mechanisms want to push him away, my heart wants to stick it out and reap the rewards. Im taking the big step of moving in with him this coming month.
I have to say most of the men who commented were bang ON!! I will say this. NO MAN has ever made me feel so loved yet so infuriated so intensely all in one!
Although I will say the games are tiring. I find im the one who always starts them being as insecure and jealous as I am. But I always notice his acts of kindness and he always shows his love so im back to feeling secure again. I am the hot and cold of this combo, so if you think your Cancerian is black and white stop and ask yourself maybe its not him maybe its me?
I want to be showered with affection yet too much clinging makes me feel suffocated. Too much insecurity and I get tired of reassuring him all the time. And cancers one tip sarcasm is in our nature don't take it seriously when we want you to know the truth we will tell you other then that jokes should be taken lightly not seriously.
Anyway, just reading up on the whole thing, preparing the groundwork, seeing what to expect. Did not happen with her. I know very little about her, few things like family situation and work and generalities like that, but it's just like akashic records don't be lazy, look it up! Ladies, the Cancers are insecure, you ask us out, we go away, either physically or mentally, you will see it when it happens, eyes glaze over We examine why it happened, looking for the motive why would you say it first, before taking it at the face value, we basically over think everything!!!!
Absolutely stupid, I know, and by the time we do the computations, you are normally long gone, and we end up pining for the one that got away Took me ages to get over it, went out with Pisces for ages, we clicked but it just missed that final nail. I kinda want to be led sometime, but by you deciding what you want out of the whole thing, that was the thing that drove me absolutely frakking INSANE with that Pisces, never knew if she was coming or going.
I would say what I wanted to do, she said not gonna happen nothing kinky, she wasn't into it, just generallyI would ask her what she wanted to do, she never knew, or would change her mind. Do NOT get me wrong, I am a sort of guy that gets up at AUleave the car 25 minutes away from the pizza place and walk there, then walk and drive all the way back home, very impulsive and not needing a plan, but it is absolutely infuriating to wait at home with my thumbs up my crack for someone to make up their mind.
Sometimes I just need an hour to clear my head, especially after work, someone would say something harsh to me, it will ruin my day. Last thing I want to do when I get back home is talk. I will sit down, watch a movie, get on PS3, or whatever, sort the sh! I learned that I tend to lash out when I am angry, and that is my way to deal with it, instead of hurting the beloved in any way, and saying things I should have said it to the d!
Worked in customer service, but nevermore!!! Society says one thing, your mind says the opposite Taking too much space already, so much more to say.
Her feelings are sensitive and tender and her loyalty is spotless. Though, she may not look very strong, but she is a tower of strength for her dear ones and perfectly able to manage herself, if alone. Patience is her dearest virtue and flexibility is her biggest weapon to win in all circumstances. Being in love with a Scorpio man, stirs the deepest emotions of the Cancer female making her a perfect match for a passionate male like him.
Cancer woman is always an interesting lady for a Scorpio man. She is full of such feminine mysteries which a curious Scorpio man always wants to unfold completely but gently. She has a reserved outlook in the beginning which attracts him but soon she shows him her great sense of humor which makes even a serious person like him to smile.
She brings colors and joys to his life and provides him with a companion who is always by his side to love, care and understands his feelings. She is actually one person who understands him well deep to his soul and knows what goes on under his cool and composed surface. Loyalty is the biggest trait that makes him feel comfortable with a Cancer woman.
Though to his dislike, he can find her to be possessive and bossy at times and also has to tolerate her mood swings but with such love and loyalty in return, he understands her value and keeps a cool temper while dealing with her mood swings.
He appreciates and understands her very well and soon converts their understanding into a romantic endeavor. He deals with the wounded feelings of her with great compassion, understanding her dreadful heartaches and soothes them out with his passionate love and thick blankets of care and devotion. He gives her the protection and care which she craves for deeply with such intensity that it makes her feel complete in all dimensions of her existence.
He is one person who cuddles her like a baby and respects her like a lady. Needless to say Scorpios never give up on what they want. Truly deep emotional connection!! I am a Scorpio man and recently had a relationship with a Cancer woman.
She is the love of my life. I know this, don't question me, I AM a Scorpio after all. The emotional connection I have with her is beyond description. It is deep, yes, but it is of another time as well. I knew from the moment we met that there was something 'special' with me and this woman. The first time we embraced I was transported to another period, perhaps years ago.
My soul knows this woman deeply. I told her this. I do not give my heart to just anyone and she is certainly not just anyone. She is my queen. This woman is everything I have ever wanted in a relationship. Passionate, intelligent, sexy, compassionate, caring, intuitive, and, yes, I like the mood swings too who wants a wall flower??
He has cheated on her before, more than once and will again I have no doubt and is emotionally either not there or abusive. We are still together, and I love her dearly, but my heart is with my queen, always will be.
I made a promise to her that I would not wait for her to leave her husband, but I have no choice. She is the love of this life, and apparently at least one other that I have lived as well. I am in misery without her. Scorp's, if you find a Cancer you have feelings for, keep her. She is more than likely the one. I fell for a Cancer woman when I was 16 as well, and it was love, but not nearly as intense as this is.
In response to "I don't know how to say this but I am a married Cancer woman who is having an affair with a married Scorpio man. I love my husband and I love this man I don't know what to do What is it about them that means "love" to you? As you've read, if the Scorp loves you - truly loves you - it is forever and it is deep. I am not in love with my wife - I do love her very much, but there is no passion, if I am honest, there never has been.
It was a rebound thing. The woman I am in love with, have the best time with no matter what we're doing, is unavailable. If she were, my life would be complete.
Having read through the above experiences, I wonder if there's no one as unfortunate in this world as me. I've never let my feelings overcome me except about 6 months ago when I noticed this Cancer female at my office. She used to give furtive glances but I never paid much attention. Gradually, our eye contacts became more frequent - still no words expressed by either of us.
Then I made a friendly move to introduce myself - that's when I realized she was a Cancerian. Slowly, I was getting hooked to her. I was getting a hunch a Scorpion's hunch that she'd started to like me and coz I knew Cancerian female may not muster enough courage to come out with her feelings - I broke the ice and asked her if we could be together for the rest of our lives To my horror, she said she never thought of me in tha t manner.
Now, although we are 'kind' of friend - by nature it's a little difficult for me to keep friend on a fence. It's like a person standing at the edge of the cliff: The person is either grabbed by me or I simply let the person fall off the cliff.
I still like her a lot! So, I've decided to slowly ebb away from this 'relationship' - as I don't think either of us are going to get too far with this. I am a Cancerian woman engaged to a Scorpio man. The moment I looked into his eyes I knew that we were made for each other.
He's in the navy and all it took was one week to fall in love with him. As soon as he left he got deployed, he keeps me strong, constantly reminding me that I am the only woman he has eyes for. He is completely gorgeous, and passionate in every way possible. I love him to death and can't fathom my life without him, we already started arranging our wedding which will take place June of next year I have read most of the posts here and am amazed to see the similarities in the description of cancer-Scorpio relationship.
My situation is in a way special, yet I believe it fits in here perfectly, just as dramatic and deep as all the stories told until now. I am a Cancer woman and the love of my life is, and I'm starting to suspect, will always be a Scorpio man.
Our relationship is purely platonic, we've never even kissed and we never really had significant discussions. I've known him since I was twelve, we studied in the same school and high school. At first he was in a different class but he got transferred into mine. Twelve years had passed since I first met him but I will never forget the day the teacher first introduced him to us, I was only a little girl but I feel in love with him instantly.
Since then we both had relationships, loves and deceptions but he has always been there in the back of my mind and every time we see each other I feel that our communication and is really beyond words. We stare at each other hungrily and I feel like I know him better than anyone, it is a mutual understanding of each other's deepest and darkest feelings that goes beyond anything explainable.
I am in a relationship with a Taurus man that adores me but my real love and my soul mate is my Scorpio school mate.
I feel it with every fibre of my being and I have no doubt that a real relationship with him would change both our lives. I want him to be mine more than anything in this world but in the same time this intensity and yearning scares me, I admit I am afraid of him and of us.
I was 15 when I first read Wuthering Heights, I remember Heathcliff, in my imagination, looked like him, was him. If I were to compare what we have to anything that would be it, we are Katty and Heathcliff because no matter where our lives would take us, no matter who will we end up with we will always be one and the same.
Because I am a water sign through and through of course this is something I never revealed to anyone and obviously my anonymity here is what makes me open up like this. Despite the tough exterior and devil may care attitude I like to cultivate I do need to take the proverbial mask off sometimes. I need to pour those Cancerian waters of despair I have inside so that maybe other Cancer women won't make my mistake and hopefully will go after their Scorpios. I am a Scorpio man and I like a Cancer woman.
I know she also likes me, but it is like an electric circuit, some times on and some times off. She comes forward on some occasions and completely withdraws in her shell, on other occasions. Giving me a complete surprise. Hi, Ive been following this thread for a while now and found it very interesting. I'm from India and have been in the US for the past 10 yrs. The chemistry between us was amazing, something you read in the novels.
I felt a great connection between us and I bet she did too. After that I went home but I couldn't stop thinking about her. This all happened on a Saturday and the next Monday I went back to the clinic to ask her out. She refused due to the fact that I was a client and it's against the rules.
I came to later that she was seeing someone. Days passed but I can't keep her off my head and its like her name is in the air all the time. I got a job in another city and moved here a few months ago. Wherever I go, the movies, at work, while shopping, I come across someone with her name. The world keeps revealing her to me screwing my head even more. Im in desperate need of an expert opinion on this. What should I do now? I don't even know her last name which makes the matters worse. I am a Cancer and my boyfriend is a Scorpio, we have been dating for 11 months and 5 days to be exact I needed time to heal from that nightmare Yes we do have our bab moments, but that's all they last for is moments, I think about him constantly, it's like we feel each other thinking about one another, a lot of times I will be thinking about him and he will call me or vise versa He is a wonderful father to his 6 year old son and I love his son like he's my own, matter of fact im getting ready to drive from Atl, ga to Pennsylvania in a couple of minutes to go pick his son up with him I love his sense of humor and how he's just so secure of himself and doesn't let anything stand in his way of what he wants, my dad is also a Scorpio, and he's the best father any daughter could ever have I don't think women should intentionally go out and search for a Scorpio man, but if one finds you, hold on to him You might have to be single for a long time, hopefully not 4 years LOL Well just dropping by, been want to vent about this and here is the best place for me to do it because my Scorpio man is not to prone to all of this I've met him through mutual friends.
I had a boyfriend at the time, we had been dating for about 6 months, he was a Libra. I was instantly attracted to my Scorpio guy and it wasn't only because of his looks, I loved the way he looked at me with such intensity and how he was so mysterious. I felt like he had a scary dark side and some how that just made me much more attracted to him. I'm actually very good at predicting a persons personality. It was also very weird because we didn't even have to communicate or talk a lot, but I could still feel him, I felt an unexplainable rush through my body and he understood me and I understood him too just by glazing at him.
He has the most intense eyes and I loved it, I felt such a connection like no other. We started talking over Myspace, texting, and on the phone and I start ed falling for him, more and more because I felt that he was falling for me too. He was either hot or coldhe would always send me mixed signals about how he felt for me. This really confused mebut still deep down in my heart I felt like he was the guy that I wanted to be with so I dumped my boyfriend thinking that we were going to end up dating each other.
One second he would be calling me beautiful the other he would say that I was too nice and innocent for him? He would tell me some of his darkest secrets that he had never told anyone because he had trust issues before in his pass and he still does, I was the only girl that he trusted so I felt like I must have been very special to have that privilege.
Sometimes he would be flirting with me a lot then he would say I was more like a good friend? He was really messing with my emotions and my head. He would tell me that I was too innocent for him and he just wanted to go around and mess around with girls and have not commitment, even after all the things his said to me that I really did not want to hear, I still had feelings for him and sometimes I still feel like I do.
I still don't understand why I feel like this sometimesmaybe its because I can't get over rejection or it could be that we really had or probably will have something special. I went to a party about 4 months ago and he was their, I had too much to drink I think it had a little to much to drink because I was upset to see him flirting with some girl.
So basically I was drunk not totally wasted but definitely not sober. I couldn't even walk that straight, so he sat me down and sat next to me he told me to sit down and chill and that he was going to take care of me. I was resting my head on his shoulder and he was caressing my head and back.
I had never been so close to him before, he also brought me some food so I can sober up but I was hurt about what he had done to mehe made me fall for him and at the end he still wasn't mine so I threw the food of his hand walked away went back inside the party and made out with some guy that I knew in their. The Scorpio guy and one of my best friends went up to me while I was kissing the guymy best friend grabbed me by my hand and took me away from him while the Scorpio guy was giving the guy dirty looks like he was jealous that was when the bad tension began and about thirty minutes later some how they ended up so close to fighting each other until the owner off the house told them that if they started any drama or fighting they will have to leave.
I know Scorpio people are very jealousy so are Cancerian, I'm not sure if all of this happened because my Scorpio guy was actually jealous because maybe he still had something for me. I'm in a relationship now and its about to be 4 months with my new boyfriend, he is a Gemini, he is very charming and nice and I really do love him he is also friends with the Scorpio guy. I still like the Scorpio guy I can never get over him I still feel like we were meant for each other and maybe the right time will come.
Theirs just something very special about him its been about 2 years and I still can't get him out of my heart: What do you guys think? Is it that I can't get over rejection? I seem to have pushed them or hurt them somehow. Being a Cancer it was not my intention at all and I thought I was being very careful with my words and very open with my heart. What did I do wrong??? I am a Cancer women married to a Scorpio man. We have been together for 9 years and married 8.
He was my prom date. We married right out of high school and now have 3 children. He is amazing and sensitive. He cried watching Dear John and would kill me for telling that. He's kind and compassionate. He believes PMS is a legitimate illness and treats me wonderfully when I'm cranky. I am a Cancer woman and I have this intense and unexplainable attraction to a Scorpio man.
The problem is that we are both married to other people. Don't get me wrong, I am in love with my husband; however, the magnetism between me and the Scorpio at my job in undeniable. We think each others' thoughts, finish each others' sentences In another life, I think we would be fantastic together My heart aches and I am so confused about everything.
I have never felt such an attraction towards another human being and he has expressed the same sentiment to me. We keep a safe distance from each other careful not to cross any boundaries Is it possible to have more than one soul mate in this life??? I've read thru all the comments, but this one related to my potential situation so well.
I am so deeply pre-indulged in a beautiful Cancer co-worker in a cooperate office. She's currently in a distant relationship and expressed to me her dismay with this situation. Well, her we go, I saw her for the first time three weeks ago, and noticed how attractive she was.
There are a lot of attractive women here. The next day I past her in the office and introduced myself. She is somewhat reserved, but we talk everyday about anything, and everyday we get more and more close. It's at a point where I would make certain flirtatious comments and she would be well excepting of them with nice responses. We both know each other's relationship status, but there's no stopping. We email all the time. We take our breaks together so we can be alone.
I walked her to her car yesterday and we both could've easily embraced and kissed, but we didn't. That was a struggle, because I think that's how comfortable we are. I can't stop thinking about her. Where was she 15 year ago? We would look and be so good together both being well fit and attractive people with same desires.
I want to know everything about this Cancer woman and fantasize doing everything with her. I know she feels my vibe. I am so tempted to just tell her how I feel and let whatever happens happen, but I'm married. Scorpio man Cancer woman Hi, Ive been following this thread for a while now and found it very interesting.
You don't say what caused you to think she might feel the same. I had a similar experience see my post "Scorpio man Cancer woman I am a Scorpio man and recently had a relationship with a Cancer woman. If it is to be, it will be. I have a feeling I will see her again, question is when and where, in this life? I look forward to it though, it will be blinding with light. I have never felt this 'energy' with another human being in my life. My counselor oh yeah, had to go that route for a while says I may never have that experience again.
Talk about getting your heart ripped open. But I found Ho'oponopono and I am at peace. Again if it is to be, it will be. Me and my love just as you and yours came together for a reason. Finding that reason has become my life's work. I am a Cancer woman who has fallen utterly in love with a Scorpio man. I am 24 and he is I must say, It happened rather suddenly and came at a rather tumultuous time in my life, but in my eyes, it was the perfect timing.
He is my rock and the only thing keeping me sane right now. I must say that we get along perfectly, and I know in my heart of hearts that it was him that I was waiting for all my life. We have fallen so deeply that there is no turning back. It is he and I against the world and I would choose no other, ever He is Mo Shearc, and i, his. He has the most beautiful soul I have ever had the honor of meeting and a wonderful heart.
Knowing him and the person he is now, I know that I could not bear to be without him. We have the kind of romance that one only dreams about, and reads about. I know that I must be the luckiest person in the world to have found my soulmate.
And though distance seperates us for now, I know that when we are together, we wi ll never have to be apart again. And I can not wait! I had almost given up on love before he came along, but how could I now when he has shown me the greatest love I have ever known, and felt He is the one for me, for always. And reading this page only solidifies my belief in him, and in us.
I never knew a love like this existed. But he has opened my eyes, and for that, I will thank him with every breath. For the rest of my life. I love you Mo Shearc. I am a Cancer female who has begun spending time with a Scorpio male. He pursued me until I gave in. I can't believe he spent so much time trying to woo me, as I really did ignore him for the first few months.
But he just kept on being excited to see me, going out of his way to be nice to me, and doing little things to make me notice him. So I finally bit - and now I am so confused! He's so attractive and sexy, and we kiss and cuddle and hang out.
But we haven't even had sex yet!
This terrifies and frustrates me! I like him, but how am I supposed to know if I want to be committed to someone who I haven't even seen completely naked? He keeps saying "I'm looking forward to getting to know you better" and this also terrifies me. It feels like he has a pre-conceived notion of how I am in his head.
This is probably just the inherent Cancerian insecurity speaking, but I am just so confused and find this whole situation bizarre. I like him, and want to have sex with him, but he's making me wait. P And in being aggravated, I have no idea how to act or be. So I just try to be my sweet self and ignore the raging in my nether regions when we hang out. Damn you, you Scoprio men, I love and hate you. Patience, when it comes to a good shagging, isn't my best virtue!
Especially when I have a nice handy Sag man to call who's perfect for the job! It's so hard to not call him. Why can I sleep with the Sag guy who I am not emotionally invested in while getting to know the Scorp guy who I want to become emotionally involved withuntil the Scorp guy decides to finally give it up?
Well, because if the Scorp guy finds out, I'm fucked. If I sound frustrated it's because I am: I am a Cancer girl and in a relationship with a Scorpio man for over 2 years now.
After reading all these posts I feel amazed that it wasn't just us and kind of comforted knowing that I've not turned into some dellusional person when I think that I was made for him and he was made for me.
We are exactly how the horoscope described it, we feel so deeply connected like our love has no time or space. And ofcourse, those infamous eyes. God, I thought that was just my boyfriend. The way he looks at me so intensly makes my knees weak.
And the power that his aura has is just unexplainable. All I can say is, he is really the first person I have thought for in the future as my husband and the father of my children. I have had sex with a Scorp guy in the beginning in was like OMG! His moves were so sensual and very powerful and strong sex. But then sometimes he seemed distant and uninterested.
We had a brief seperation his part and when we hooked up again it was even better! I saw a Scorpio man across a crowded bar about six weeks ago. I haven't stopped thinking about this guy since we met, and as far as I can tell he hasn't stopped thinking about me either. I asked him the other day if he believed in astrology, and he kind of shrugged the question off, but after reading these testimonials, I can safely say that there must be something to it, because most of the people describe a very similar experience of deep and passionate relationships that last a lifetime, even from humble beginnings.
In response to "I am a Scorpio man and I like a Cancer woman. Is she even available? Other life commitments maybe. I've had two extraordinary Cancer women in my life, both unavailable for one reason or another. They both loved me said so but could not commit.
How's that for a turn? Women that won't commit! The stars are having fun with this Scorpio I can tell you. It's not always the case, but in your case, it's simple. You took too long to say 'OK' to even date.
We and obviously I speak only from my perspective need to know there is more to the relationship than just the physical, and that we're not some consolation prize. The sex is the easy part for us, we're Scorpios after all ;o If it took him a long time to get your attention, there is a lot of suspicion as to your availability emotionally and long term compatibility. For me, the emotional connection and communication are the most important parts.
Sex is something you can learn to be better at though, sorry to say, maybe not as good as a Scorpio: Communication is the key to any good relationship.
- Scorpio man and Cancer woman
- 7 Ways Scorpio and Cancer Are Highly Compatible
- Cancer Woman and Scorpio Man
If you can talk about everything and anything openly and honestly, including emotions, we go nuts. The sex is even better with these connections - oh yeah, be lieve it. I was in a relationship earlier this year - it was very short, only two months, but the sweetest encounter I've ever had or am likely to have in this life. Incredible almost from day one. The communication was indescribable - I know more about her and her about me than I've learned about my wife or that she'll ever know about me in over 25 years.
Yes it was extra marital, but I've never done that before. Like any Scorpio I was committed. This connection was so extraordinary, I let go of all inhibitions. And not one shred of guilt. That is such a huge thing for me to say. The emotional connection was, for lack of a better term, the most tender and loving I have ever experienced.
Scorpio man Cancer woman
I never wanted to romance someone so bad in my life. When I would just see her walking toward me I would feel an overwhelming - let me repeat, overwhelming sense of happiness and joy. Didn't happen until month two. I told I was not about that.
She res isted me for a while, but my emotional response to her and hers to me was just beyond description. How was the sex? I still have clear, vivid visuals of her almost 4 months later in my mind that cause me to, well, you know. This beautiful creature although this woman is an 8 physically, she's a 15 emotionally and communicatively is my soulmate, I knew it the first time we embraced.